Before you start applying for everything that sounds remotely interesting, let's figure out what you actually want.
There's a moment many of us reach in our careers when we start asking ourselves a question:
Do I really want to keep doing this?
Maybe you're feeling overlooked.
Maybe the salary isn't keeping up with your responsibilities.
Maybe you've outgrown your position, or perhaps the work you once enjoyed just doesn't excite you anymore.
Or maybe your life has changed, and what made sense ten years ago doesn't fit the life you're trying to build today.
Whatever the reason, you've started thinking about making a move.
And what's usually the first thing we do?
Open the résumé.
Start rearranging bullet points.
Search job boards.
And after thirty minutes of scrolling through positions that somehow want ten years of experience, five certifications, and the willingness to perform three jobs for one salary, we start questioning the entire idea.
But here's what I'd suggest.
Before updating your résumé, get clear about what you're actually looking for.
Otherwise, you risk putting a lot of effort into finding a different job that comes with the same frustrations.
First, Figure Out What's Actually Wrong
This sounds obvious, but it's an important distinction.
Are you unhappy with your career, or are you unhappy with your current job?
Those aren't necessarily the same thing.
You might love your profession but dislike your manager, compensation, commute, or company culture.
Or perhaps you've genuinely lost interest in the work itself.
Before deciding to change industries, ask yourself:
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What parts of my current work do I still enjoy?
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What drains me the most?
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If my salary, schedule, or leadership improved, would I want to stay in this field?
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What would I like my average workday to look like?
Your answers can help determine whether you need a new employer, a different role, or a more significant career transition.
And that's going to save you time.
Take Inventory of Skills You Already Have
One mistake women sometimes make when considering a new industry is assuming they lack relevant experience.
But job titles don't always tell the entire story.
Maybe you've spent years managing projects, negotiating with suppliers, solving customer problems, coordinating teams, or improving processes.
Those skills may translate into roles you haven't considered.
Think beyond the specific tasks you've performed and focus on the outcomes you've delivered.
Did you improve efficiency?
Manage budgets?
Lead projects?
Build relationships?
Solve complicated problems?
Create systems that saved time or money?
Those accomplishments often say more about your capabilities than a list of daily responsibilities.
Here's an exercise: Write down five professional accomplishments you're proud of. Next to each one, identify the skills that made it possible.
You may discover that your experience is more versatile than you thought.
Define Your Nonnegotiables Before You Start Searching
This is where we need to get practical.
Because the perfect job title means very little if the job doesn't support the life you want.
Before applying, think about your actual requirements.
What's your minimum acceptable salary?
How much flexibility do you need?
Would you consider relocating?
Do you want leadership responsibilities, or would you prefer to be an individual contributor?
How much travel is reasonable?
Are you looking for advancement, stability, creative fulfillment, or better work-life balance?
And be specific.
"Better pay" is a wish.
"A minimum base salary of $110,000 with reasonable flexibility" is a search criterion.
The clearer you become, the easier it is to recognize opportunities worth pursuing.
Research the Market Before Investing in More Qualifications
Here's something worth remembering.
You don't necessarily need another certification, degree, or training program to make a career move.
Sometimes you do. But sometimes what you really need is to understand how employers describe the skills you already possess.
Choose five to ten job postings that genuinely interest you.
Look for patterns.
Which requirements appear repeatedly?
Which qualifications do you already meet?
Which skills are missing?
And most importantly, are the salary ranges and working arrangements aligned with what you're looking for?
This research will help you determine whether additional education is worthwhile.
Before spending thousands of dollars or months studying, make sure you're solving an actual skills gap.
Have Conversations Before You Make Decisions
One of the best ways to learn about a career is to speak with someone already doing the work.
Not to ask them for a job.
Just to learn.
What does a typical day look like?
What skills matter most?
What do they enjoy about the role?
What do they wish they'd known before entering the field?
You may discover that a role you thought was perfect isn't actually what you imagined.
Or you may uncover opportunities you hadn't considered.
Either outcome is valuable.
A twenty-minute conversation can sometimes prevent months of pursuing the wrong direction.
Now You're Ready to Update That Résumé
Once you've identified your direction, your résumé becomes much easier to write.
Instead of trying to appeal to every employer, you can focus on the skills and accomplishments relevant to your target positions.
You can also create different versions for different career paths.
Because a résumé shouldn't simply be a history of everything you've ever done.
It should help an employer understand why your experience matters for the role you're pursuing.
And that's a much stronger position to start from.
The Next Move: Your Career Clarity Check
Before spending another evening applying to jobs, take thirty minutes to write down:
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Three things you want more of in your next role.
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Three things you no longer want to tolerate.
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Five transferable skills you can confidently demonstrate.
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Your minimum salary and flexibility requirements.
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Two job titles or career directions worth researching.
Then review a handful of real job descriptions.
You don't need to have your entire future figured out by Sunday evening.
But you do need a clearer direction than anything but this.
Your next career move deserves more thought than simply escaping your current position.
Because your next chapter isn't waiting to be discovered. It's yours to design.
Here's to designing what's next,
Design What's Next
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